This book is for you if
You'll recognize yourself.
It was written for a specific man. If it's you, you'll know by the end of this list.
- You did everything they told you to, and you still can't afford to stop.
- You're not afraid of growing older — you're afraid of growing older invisible.
- You've done the math at the kitchen table, late at night, and it never comes out the way they promised.
- And under it all: you're tired of waiting for permission to live the years you have left.
From inside the book
Three of the twenty chapters.
Chapter 3
Becoming Invisible at Sixty
The day the world quietly decided it was finished with you. You hadn't changed — the way you got treated had. And it isn't permanent. It's geographic.
Chapter 12
$1,500 and a Discharge Paper
If you wore the uniform, there's a door to this life you already paid for. The chapter that feels like justice.
Chapter 15
Nobody's Coming to Give You Permission
You've spent your life waiting for someone to say it's okay to stop. Once you let that land, it becomes the most freeing sentence in the book.
Four parts: The Life That Used You Up · The Lie About “Enough” · The Way Out · Living It.
Not sure yet? Read Chapter 1 free (PDF)
You are not broken. You were sold a story with a hole in it.
Why this book
Other books hand you visa forms. This one hands you permission.
Most “retire overseas” books are cost tables and visa checklists — useful once you've already decided. They never touch the question keeping you awake: am I even allowed to want more than this?
This book starts there. The facts are here too — the numbers, the visa, the healthcare truth — as proof the way out is real, not as homework.
Included with your copy
Two bonus guides.
Bonus 1
The First 30 Days
The decision isn't the hard part — the first month on the ground is. Your map through the strange first week, the week-two dip, and how to know, honestly, at day thirty.
Bonus 2
The People Who Think You're a Bank
How to stay generous and well-loved without becoming the family ATM — the kind, firm words to say, and the one habit that protects you most.
You're Allowed to Go + the other two books
$27
All three books for the price of one
- The book — You're Allowed to Go, 20 chapters (58 pages)
- Bonus 1 — The First 30 Days
- Bonus 2 — The People Who Think You're a Bank
- Digital books (PDF), read on any device
- Plus the other two books: The Honest Move and Everything I Learned Living Abroad
Less than a dinner out — to think it through clearly, in your own time.
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Included at no extra cost
You also get the other two books.
Right now the three books come together for $27, the price of one. Bought one by one, they're $81.
- The Honest Move — the real costs, the three cities compared, the visa, the healthcare, the traps
- Everything I Learned Living Abroad — twenty lessons, and the stories that earned them
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Honest answers
Questions you might have.
Do I really get all three books?
Yes. Right now all three books, plus the two bonus guides, are $27 together: the same price as one book on its own. One payment, one download page with every file.
Is this just the YouTube videos written down?
No. The videos tell stories; this book takes what those stories are really about — the wound, the dignity, the way out — and turns it toward you and your decision, with the honest numbers, the visa and the healthcare truth.
I'm not a veteran. Is the visa part useless to me?
Not at all. The veteran chapter is for those who served, but there's a door for non-veterans too; it just costs a bit more to open. The book is about the whole journey, not one visa.
Is this a how-to guide for moving abroad?
No. It's the honest conversation about whether — and why — you'd go, with the real facts woven in as proof. If you want the numbers in detail, that's The Honest Move, and it comes with this one.
I'm 55. I'm 75. Is this for me?
Both. The book is about a feeling and a decision, not an age.
Is it a printed book?
No — it's a digital book (PDF). The moment you buy, you get a download page and an email with your download link. Read it on your phone, tablet or computer, or print it at home. Yours to keep.
What if I don't like it?
Reply to your receipt within 30 days and every dollar comes back.
One last thing
You kept your end of the bargain.
You've waited a long time for someone to say it's allowed. Nobody's coming. So consider it said: you're allowed to go. You always were.
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